It's never an easy thing to end a relationship...someone will always be hurt- it's inevitable. How you handle the person and situation will show respect and make it easier to end things as fair and 'good' as possible and there will be times that,that won't be possible.
It's been a hard road...and there are times where I've been wrong...seeking 'things' in the wrong place, searching in men something perfect that did not exist.
The inevitable break-up starts simple...then seeps through like a plague...reaching to the core of the relationship...making each other at our worst.
Even through the bad times...the brea-ups, I see myself more clearly now....my good and my bad...realizing where my weaknesses are that infiltrate and make things what are not.
I have a desire that needs to be fullfilled and if i look in the wrong place it can backfire.
Am I more lost or have I finallly been found...with more understanding....
I do not know...
My heart is hardened, my resolve toughned,my reality more grounded...my passive nature is finally tired of being someones door mat.
I am single and while that is lonely...my soul is my own to keep, my peace to not be taken...
Knowing that they have lost in thier life my goodness...my heart...my sincerity....
So here's my tips for male and female dealing with being dumped- Your destiny is not tied to someone who walks away...don't let them leave scars in your life, or let it overcome you. Don't waste time begging,pleading ...let them walk and know that because thier destiny is not tied to yours THIER part in your story is over...thier story isn't good enough...righteous enough...to be there with you to the finish...
And what a grand fullfilling story YOU will have!
It's been a hard road...and there are times where I've been wrong...seeking 'things' in the wrong place, searching in men something perfect that did not exist.
The inevitable break-up starts simple...then seeps through like a plague...reaching to the core of the relationship...making each other at our worst.
Even through the bad times...the brea-ups, I see myself more clearly now....my good and my bad...realizing where my weaknesses are that infiltrate and make things what are not.
I have a desire that needs to be fullfilled and if i look in the wrong place it can backfire.
Am I more lost or have I finallly been found...with more understanding....
I do not know...
My heart is hardened, my resolve toughned,my reality more grounded...my passive nature is finally tired of being someones door mat.
I am single and while that is lonely...my soul is my own to keep, my peace to not be taken...
Knowing that they have lost in thier life my goodness...my heart...my sincerity....
So here's my tips for male and female dealing with being dumped- Your destiny is not tied to someone who walks away...don't let them leave scars in your life, or let it overcome you. Don't waste time begging,pleading ...let them walk and know that because thier destiny is not tied to yours THIER part in your story is over...thier story isn't good enough...righteous enough...to be there with you to the finish...
And what a grand fullfilling story YOU will have!